Life is all about loveable attachment and then broken heart. (Maturing)

After almost living for two and half decades I realise the process of maturing ain’t easy. Getting mature enough takes a lot from you, hence, many folks couldn’t grow to their fullest. I am saying all these things because I m just done being mature, I am done being practical all the time, I am done being responsible for everything, I am done being a good person to everyone, lastly, I am done hurting myself. For a second I just wanna sit and calm down for a moment. It is sad how people conduct themselves nowadays, they set goals so high which are not practically achievable but their self-respect and ego are even higher that they don’t stop and pave their way towards depression, anxiety and many other mental problems. All of us these days are so busy that we forget to look out for the person who raised us. Well, a person who has seen you throughout your life, from your childhood to your adolescence to you being an adult and finally a full grown-up. You know what if you do not find the right path in your life go ask a person who raised you or your better half who’s gonna live with you forever! Don’t go to your friends or a lover (so-called gf/bf) for your solutions to a problem. It’s a total time waste, they ain’t gonna live your life; you gotta live yours only. For that, Give yourself some time, put your body in rest mode, clear your mind and live some days you want to live your life (after a success or when you become old). I bet you don’t wanna work all day long coz the feelings are mutual, everybody feels the same way (like 80% of us). I think it is not very hard, it’s all about the decisions we take at an early age or the goal we follow (practically achievable with upward results). I think we should stop pressuring ourselves. We should leave some things for god to make it happen. At last, there is a thing called magic, and yes it happens by the name of luck 🍀. Look in your past for the mistakes you have made, the pain you have felt, the things you lost, the people you hurt, the opportunities you missed, and the decisions you have taken. Work on things you can do right in your present by connecting dots. Hope all is good for the future. As You never know when you gonna leave this world.